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In her profile she states she is looking for a LTR, without having to give up the swinging lifestyle.She meets Fred and Wilma who are looking for strictly casual sex.If your goal is to find a mate who is already INTO the lifestyle, then where else would you go. My theory goes as follows: Most women who are active on swinger websites are there because they are NOT looking for a LTR.They want a safe place to be able to enjoy their sexuality without worries.

Suddenly Betty tells them she loves Fred (or Wilma or both! Would it be that surprising since in her profile she said she wanted a LTR?

I guess I said all that to say, it's not a bad thing if they are doing it IN ADDITION to looking elsewhere, but if they are limiting themselves to only looking for a LTR on a swinger site, they are probably screwing themselves out of lots of potential screwing.

I believe those SM (and SF's for that matter) would have better results looking on standard dating sites like POF and being open about who they are and what they are looking for.

Serendipitous meetings at clubs or parties would seem more likely to end in a lasting relationship than looking on a site focused on sex, I would think. Having been a single who was still somewhat in the lifestyle, I think I can see both sides of this.

On one side, I can see why singles might choose to use it to find others who are like-minded.

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