Dating with children rules
There are many things to consider when making the choice to begin dating after your divorce.Here are a few of the questions that parents ask: Regarding Your Children How do I explain my dating to my children?What you say to your children when you begin dating after your divorce will depend largely on their age. You'll be in bed when I get home."With school-age children (6-10) you can begin to provide more information.If you need a reminder about what to expect at each developmental stage have a look here When talking with young children (infants and toddlers) describe the person you are seeing as a friend. I'll be back soon."With preschoolers (ages 3-5) still describe the person you will be going out with as as friend. You will likely want to have a more in-depth conversation about dating.It takes anywhere from 1-3 years for individuals to emotionally recover from divorce.
Children deserve to be comfortable and safe in their own home.
What if my children don't like the person I am dating? On one hand, it is important for parents to listen to concerns that their children raise about new partners.
Dating after divorce requires some caution on the part of adults. Gary Neuman, author of Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way offers a list of things for parents to pay attention to.
Take things slowly and give everyone the time they need to adjust to this new world of dating after divorce.
How long after my divorce should I wait before I begin dating?