Dating wiht a kid

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It turns out there is very little literature on how to date someone who has children. After running into him over a period of months, we began dating.

Overnight, I was thrown into a brave, new world -- one that involved a tween.

I scoured the Internet for advice about dating people with kids. I got the same advice from multiple people: "Be yourself." OK, what next? We were on and off, and it wasn't the healthiest relationship I've ever been in.

The only books I could find were about step-parenting. Considering the divorce rate in this country, I thought finding the advice would be easy. *crickets* My relationship with this man continued for... But I did learn a LOT about the kiddos and how to deal with them.

Don't Be Their Friend Just as with any old parent-child relationship, it's a bad idea to try to be "friends" with your significant other's child.

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I love my children too much to rush into anything with anyone. More from Gal Time.com: • 5 Tips for Dating a Guy with Kids • Why You Shouldn't Rule Out Single Parents • 5 Movies Guys Say They Love...

This article first appeared on Gal By Marina Sbrochi You thought dating was hard the first time? You don’t want to introduce someone and one month later have to explain to your children why they don’t see "Mike" anymore. Telling your children they have to be nice or like someone is a sure fire way to ruin the meeting. For instance, a backyard BBQ with friends and your new man. Trust me, going slow now will ensure you have success later. One Mom, One Dad : Reassure your children that they only have one mom and one dad. I told my children this a few months after I introduced my then boyfriend to them.

Here you are, single again, but this time with children. I would also advise that you let your ex-husband know you are introducing someone to your children. It’s not just your life; it’s your kid’s lives too. You should introduce him as a friend and give your children the chance to get to know your guy in a fun, relaxed, no pressure atmosphere. My son actually liked my boyfriend so much he wanted to call him dad.

I had to be sure he would be in my life in for a long time. I had a pool party with about four adult guests, him being one of them. We did about five more group outings before he came to do things with just me and my two children.

We slowly began doing fun kids things with just the four of us.

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